Activsync won't sync...

[Negrito]

Ok so i finally decide to flash to the new leaked "official" rom. and for some reason the parallels on my MacBook is not allowing connections anymore. So here i am sitting in front of my sisters WinXP desktop that i used to share with her. I plugged in my touch and it says i have to upgrade to activesync 4.5. i only had 4.2 from my old apache and blue angel. so i go find my touch cd and install activsync. then it connects and tries to sync but doesnt quite make it. the pc says synchronizing but the percent status thing is empty. and the touch only says its connected, not syncing. the left soft key reads "sync" so i press it. then the touch says it's trying to synchronize, but the pc loses the connection on its end. but not completely because if i look in network connections there is an icon for "windows based mobile deice" and its connected. plus the left light is solid amber indicating its connected/charging. Help! I am trying to get this done before i leave on my vacation later tonight.