Ugh...need program to catch cheating spouse.. - Page 9

**CozBoogie** · #81 (**permalink**) 02-11-2008, 03:44 PM

Ok, I'm gonna chime in on a number of levels.

This thread/topic is a pretty touchy situation. We had a fellow community member (emphasis on community) calling out for a bit of assistance and support. And the majority of responses were supportive and offered potential solutions.

And sadly it usually takes one negative comment to sour the entire thread. Now fortunately NinjaMom stepped in quickly and slapped a warning on adlib311.

Now hopefully we can all let this issue with adlib311 quietly end and continue to give our support to Cipro (OP).

I hate to sound preachy, but this thread is now at a crossroads...it could turn into a "flaming thread" or everyone here can sack up and gloss over the negative comment.

I challenge this community (especially in this thread) to continue to support Cipro and to not pile on with the flaming. Surely we have more class than to flame in such a sensitive thread.

I don't know if this made a lot of sense...I just switched to Sanka this morning.

Cipro...we continue to send you some positive karma my man!!!!

late,
Coz

jackryan57 · #82 (**permalink**) 02-11-2008, 07:10 PM

Just do what I did and get a girlfriend

tbhausen · #83 (**permalink**) 02-11-2008, 07:27 PM

cozboogie, you did make perfect sense. All any of ous should have to do is imagine ourselves in the OP's shoes (if we haven't been there already).

Todd/Indy

Vip3rV333 · #84 (**permalink**) 02-11-2008, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by tbhausen

cozboogie, you did make perfect sense. All any of ous should have to do is imagine ourselves in the OP's shoes (if we haven't been there already).

Todd/Indy

Umm... I just got out of a 3 year relationship and now shes dating anouther guy, 1 week later...

Close enough? lol

Oh and crap happens to everyone, Cipro , my story isn't exactly like yours, but Im just trying to let you know your not the only one w/ bad luck, we all get something like this every once in a while, but the only real option is just to try and make it though this as smoothly as possible. Good luck...

**No1ustad** · #85 (**permalink**) 02-12-2008, 05:27 AM

As per the dashwire idea, i'm not sure they'd stay on the comp after they're deleted on the phone, but if necessary, PM me and I'll help ya get a dashwire accnt quicker.

As for the whole cheating idea-Only thing I can say is before confrontations, make sure you set yourself up and have things figured out, though the courts are more sympathetic to men compared to before, your attny wife will have lots of attny friends too, and you gotta cover your bases-she's obviously heartless.

Cipro · #86 (**permalink**) 02-12-2008, 08:32 AM

thanks for all the kind words....

Just so you guys know, I installed mobile-spy and it worked like a champ....I was worried about a dialog box popping up that would give it away, but the developer was pretty savvy to name all the files smartphone.xxx so it seems like a windows error if one should occour....

Needless to say the software was able to give me the info I knew I would fine but hoped I would not. This info will probably help me not have to sell my business in order to divide assets, as the court will rip her a new one (according to my fire breathing attorney). I may even get sole custody of the kids.

We can close the thread, I sincerely appreciate the kind words.

To those of you who told me to man up or get over it, all I can say, is that I hope you never go through this.

Now if the court would just staple her vagina shut, that would be real justice.

**JackSchitt28** · #87 (**permalink**) 02-12-2008, 11:21 AM

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Now if the court would just staple her vagina shut, that would be real justice.

Ha Ha thats hilarious

**Perasite** · #88 (**permalink**) 02-12-2008, 11:53 AM

Ouch, dude. That is one harsh visual, but I can totally understand you feeling that way. Best of luck with the kids.

adlib311 · #89 (**permalink**) 02-12-2008, 10:47 PM

dont be such freaking girls. Sh*t. If somebody cheated on you its becouse you are not doing something right. Yes it has happend to me but i didnt sit around like a b*tch and cry. I took my sh*t and left . I moved on to the next one. I suggest that you also try the same thing.God. On top of that people are tattle telling. Man up and quit acting like b*tchs. I belive i do have fredom of speach and opinion.

**[sammich]** · #90 (**permalink**) 02-13-2008, 12:14 AM

Women... who needs them.

(No I am not implying ANYTHING about myself... or am i? LOL)