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Went through the same thing with my Ex-fiance' . She didnt know $h!t about phones. This idiot was using an old Samsung V1000, that was actually my phone that i gave her on my account when she couldnt afford to pay her own cell phone bill. She was texting and calling him all the time. She didnt know when she was sending him pictures the the Sprint Picture mail website tracks it. So I would log into here picturemail account (that I set up) and look at all the pictures she was sending him. I know the regular Sprint site use to keep track of text messages as well, before they went to SMS. you use to have to log onto the internet to send text messages (remember that!).
There was nothing she could say. She tried to tell me it was her daughter she was sending text messages to (who was downstairs) to bring her a wash cloth and towel. Yeah Right! I tried to be man about it and forgive her the first time she slept with the guy. I ran around and cheated on her from the day we had go together. So her cheating once really didn't matter. I had to listen to what a friend of mine said about his with cheating on him: "she can give away half as much P**** and I gave away D***, that B**** is good. " So i let it go the 1st time, but when she did it again.... i took the ring, the phone, the car etc... back. And let her go. She is married to the guy know and they fight more than ever. I know she has cheated on him with at least 2 dudes since she got married in May of 2007. They have been together officially since mar. 2006 Its gets better. I started dating my wife a week after I dumped my Ex and I got married in Oct of 2007 and we are planning a big wedding t invite our families too in Oct of 2008. Cut your losses and roll out. You will be happier
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If you suspect she's cheating and she has done it before, she probably is....and unfortunately IMHO counseling does not work (ON SOAPBOX..mainly because counselors are usually have similar problems themselves and always extend their problems onto yours and how you should handle it..OFF SOAPBOX)
My advice is to just file for divorce, and odds are you live in a no-fault divorce state, hopefully she will agree on a 50/50 deal with the kids....and split everything else down the middle....hell she will probably owe YOU alimony if she's a lawyer. Just be done with it and move forward, find peace within yourself, you and your kids will be better off in the long run.....been there myself |
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Jeez, is there no fidelity left in this world, have the media moguls twisted our morals, and values to the point that we all see just one bland shade of gray. Everyone getting cheated on, with the divorce rate climbing, are human beings ganna resort to just animals that change partners as they please, and just continue to pass disease and hurt to each and everyone. There is no respect left for the institution of marriage, its a joke that you can drive up, get married, and drive off. And its just a shame that divorce lawyers are wealthier than ever.
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damn... this is a deep topic.. never thought i'd find a life lesson on a ppc web site... lmao... kind funny though cuz im goin through the same shit... i was goin to activate the sprint locator this week on my girl friends phone... but f*@k her... all though shes probably the hottest piece of a$$ ive had in a while... (I pulled her outta a really popular club she works at in LA, SHES SMOKIN!!! ... if i were u guys i'd look into neil strauss's book the game... also the mystery method... speed seduction... and swinggcats.... there's a whole community just like this one out there to help us guys get more of the pink stuff) but anyways im gonna move on... there isnt a single girl out there that's worth the time and effort for us guys to pull our hair out and go crazy over... much love and respect to this community.
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Why on earth did you ressurect this thread? ... it was doing just fine when it was dead and gone on page five of the forums....
The only thing that can shield you (anyone) from infidelity in your relationship is mutual maturity, respect, and integrity. I'm not saying that those three thing guarantee you not to experience getting cheated on or catching drama, but if YOU are operating in those three areas personally your odds greatly decrease of getting caught up in 'drama'. Maturity means you understand that a relationship is about more than the 'hottest peice of @ss you can get with"... nuff said. Respect means that you respect yourself and the other person enough to be real and upfront with how 'open' you want your relationship to be. Most of us guys at one point have all had "friends with benefits" on the side while already in relationship, or have otherwise just flat out cheated on our partner at the time. But it takes respect to realize that you cant hold up another person's life and feelings while you want to run the streets. And finally there's integrity. It's the fundamental ingredient to any relationship. Women call it Trust but they usually fail to understand that dudes dont operate off of trust when in relationships. When a woman extends her trust to you and you're the one who's dirty, it allows a dude to put the "blame" more on her than himself. Dudes dont VALUE trust like women. But on the other hand, IF YOU operate with integrity, then YOUR actions and judgments cant be blamed on her placing her trust in you or not... you own up to and uphold the right actions and values cause it's on YOU. Now.. to get integrity (if you dont already have it) -- and dont lie and say you do if you dont, cause that's defeating the whole purpose... sheesh -- you first need Maturity... see where I'm going with this? Listen, I've known and loved my (now) wife for 5 years, but for 3.5 of those years i lacked all three of those items in our relationship. I cheated, slept around yada yada. But the I decided to grow up. I turned my life around, got my stuff together and married her 7 months ago today (on 07/07/07). The process has made me a different man. The post above mine said this "there isnt a single girl out there that's worth the time and effort for us guys to pull our hair out and go crazy over..." in some ways he's right, because the one worth the time and the effort wont make you do that. Why? Because she's operating in the same three items i mentioned as well. Real Talk.... Nautica2450
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I caugh my ex cheating awhile ago cause i bought her a new phone and did a ESN swap with the old phone, now i forgot to turn the old phone off and she went out for the night with her "girls".. then around midnight the old phone started ringing and it was my buddy that had no reason in the world to have her number let alone call her... So that threw up red flags to me so i started to look around.. I called sprint and had her phone bills changed to detailed billing (was in my name) and requested information for the last year... Also bought and installed xora time tracking on the new phone.. cost me $12 a month and only used it for 2 weeks (all the time i needed).. When i got the information i sat down with my buddies wife and we went over some of the dates and times of their phone coverstations, which oddly turned out to be the same times she was at work and/or i was at work or out of town... Needless to say the gf was thrown out of the house on her ass and my buddy was divorced and taken for everything he had and is going to have... Worst part about the whole thing was having to testifly at their divorce hearing.. Best part was takeing my phone back the ex explaining to her how she got caught... and she thought i had a keylogger on my pc so wouldnt email this guy LMAO
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