3 Questions about flashing to new ROM

[wild orchids]

Hi everyone, I would like to flash to Helmi's WM6 custom ROM for PPC6700 but have a few questions before I go ahead with it, to make sure I'm understanding it correctly.

1. Is this the right thread to go to for the WM6 ROM I'm looking for: http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=7671

2. Are the steps to flashing as below:
- Hard Reset
- Soft Reset when Customization screen pops up
- Bootloader mode
- Hook up the ppc to the USB & run the new ROM
- Hard Reset
- Soft Reset when Customization screen pops up

3. After I have flashed to the new ROM, can I still custom the today homepage? Before, I would just find a theme I like and then set it as my today's theme, but it looks like the new HTC today page is a little more intricate to change. I would like to use another theme other than the basic black/grey theme after flashing. I'm a girl and would like something a little more "cheerful" when I show my phone to my friends.

Thank you for the help.

-O