built in calendar and beaming

[moveright]

My wife and I own a business and I routinely schedule appointments for her.(no she's not a hooker)

so, I was trying to just use the built in wm6 calendar but the best I can do to get the appointment to her is to send it with her on the mandatory attendee list and she gets it by email in her gmail account.

I tried to beam it to her but no avail. I have beaming turned on and auto receive turned on. when I align the devices, her device never shows up. I have a 6800, I'm assuming it's the little black rectangle window on the bottom of the device with the .))) on it.

anyhow, I turned on bluetooth on both devices and it saw her device but I got no list of shared services. so how the heck does this work? or does the built in calendar just suck?