Ugh...need program to catch cheating spouse..
 

This is sad I know..but ....My wife is using txt as a way of communicating with this guy....we went through this once before....almost split...but we have 2 young kids...and after a year of counseling..I thought things were much better...

She has a Sprint Q....she is smart enough to delete the messages from sent items and of course the inbox/trash...

Is there a program that can capture SMS messages...and save them somewhere on her phone...I dont need real time access to them like the program Mobile Spy offers..but I may try that one..

Thanks in advance....
Cip

Been there! It may take a while to get but Dashwire may create backups of text messages. I caught mine with a keyboard capture program on the home PC.

I've been looking myswlf so when u guys find out please inform me cuz mine is doin the same.

sorry to hear bro..... you can check this website, I had it saved in my IE, but have not looked into it.

http://www.flexispy.com/

good luck!

Thanks for the responses....

Flexispy does not support Windows Mobile yet, even though they list it...when you drill down it says "comming soon"...

Hey guy's, sorry to hear what's going on. I just spoke to a rep at aprint whom advised me you can contact Corporate Security with Sprint at#800-877-7330 M-F 7-5. You would have to advise them the reason for what you need a print out of the text info that is going out, I would just say something like I'm going through a divorice and need this for something on the level of cheating like that. Let us know if this is good.

Good advice but I'm not sure you would want to say you need it because of a divorce, especially if the phone is in her name as they would probably want subpoena. Maybe you could say someone is harassing her by text and she accidentally deleted the messages.

I wouldn't go that route. If it's brought out in court or otherwise that you got those records through fraudulent/illegal means, you're setting yourself up for all kinds of other problems, including criminal charges. I can only imagine how it feels to be in your situation, but you don't want to compound your problems.

You are probably right. I don't have kiddies so I would not be worried about custody battles and all that good stuff. If my wife did that I would just want the proof so I could throw it in her face... Probably after I woke her in the middle of the night by pissing on her head.

Try this:
http://www.zedsoft.net/
Does automatic backups of text messages when sent/received. Haven't tried it, but it sounds like it will do what u want.

Sorry to hear that. You might be better off hiring a PI to follow her. If she is cheating, she has to meet him physically some time. Of course that will not be cheap.

You can try in see if you can get the # she is texting to. If you can get that try texting him from your phone as if you were her to get a response. Or you can just go hard with it, but if this happened before and if it's the same person get the #, call or text and see what's up. If you can get a copy of the bill check out the #'s she call, call them to see who answers then you can text each one, would be alot , but hey.

Your old lady is obviously gettin' the goods from somewhere else if you know what I mean. If I were you, I would be looking for an attorney, not a text msg logger.

Sadly I agree with Automaton...it's academic at this point who she's texting and what she's saying. Slowly get your sh#t together (both personally and financially) without letting on that you suspect her. That way you'll be much more prepared than her. Make a plan and stick to it.

late,
Coz

part of the plan is that I need facts....my state still awards the cheating spouse less money....the attorney asked me to try and get copies of the txt msgs....he knows im sorta a geek and figured I could get them....

Head over to XDA and post your question there.

www.xda-developers.com

late,
Coz

If dashwire was out now, he'd be set...

I am not suggesting this....

But I bet if aperson had a phone cloned with a matching esn it would at least "receive" all of the incoming text messages....

I also know that from Crickets website I can text a message to anyone and put in the phone number I want displayed on the receivers end.

I have done this before as a joke. Text someone but put in a phone number of someone else I wanted to mess with.

omething like my husband is watching, dont text back at this number. This is my new number.... Or meet me at 4:00 todday at (ANY ADDRESS YOU CHOOSE TO BE WAITING)

i agree with yznheimer.
or get the number and say youve had top change the number. and you converse with the F***er. but get your stuff sorted and get out. take your kids with you.

are there no delete optyions on her phone which will put them in to the delete d items folder like a PPC, rastheer than deleting them permanently.

or get her a new phone that can do this and you can check them.
my ex was not very tech minded so sometimes the texts were not deleted properly.

or check her sent items box.

sorry to hear your plight
m.

oh yeah. you know it will just piss you off more to read the messages anyway.

I'm sorry to hear bro.


As the poster above me said:

Honestly, reading the messages will make u even more upset

Did you take a look at the prog I posted? Says it will make a copy of all incoming/outgoing text messages. So even if she deleted them, that backup would be there for you to view.

Best way to do this... I'm kinda like onto stuff like this :)
If you 2 are on the same account.(which if you are married I assume you are) or if not I'm sure you know her last 4 SS#. Get a used Sprint cell phone, call sprint have sprint swap that phone for your wifes. Sprint will have you enter all the info (MSL code, etc.)
A few minutes later call back and put your wifes phone back on her account. Even though you cant call or respond to any text messages, Sprint will continue to send incoming text messages to BOTH phones!!!! I know this becasue I have had many cell phones and everytime I change to a new one, I continue to receive text messages on both phones for a few days. Good Luck!! email me with any questions.

dashwire is out now....I use it every day.

good suggestion.....Sprint always tells you to leave the old phone off for at least 24hrs, but I've turned the old phone back on even after 24hrs, and get a voicemail notification on both old & new phones.

If you're on Sprints new billing system, you can swap handsets yourself when you log into your account online.

Wow... y'all need a lawyer and/or PI, not a program.

Best of luck.

You know the world is messed up enough without people doing this kinda crap. You want out of a relationship, cowboy up and honestly say so, and accept the consequences. This cheating around crap is so spineless.

Sorry, lemme get off the soapbox. Again, my condolences.

Spineless? HAH! If he doesn't have hard proof then that bitch will walk away with his money and his children. I'd say a little planning and perhaps a little snooping is required before you just say "I want out".

Not HIM... the cheater is the spineless one. I see that my rant is hard to parse. My bad.

Sorry about the news.

I'm not sure about the Q, but does it have internal GPS? because if you can enable it, you can use programs like Sprite Terminator to track it.

Also, you can set it to 'Location On' so the phone won't notify her if you are tracking the phone.

Hope this helps. I also second the advice to start getting things together... Make sure you have all the financials secure, and get a lawyer to help you with you can keep from her. Slowly work your way towards security, and then drop the bomb. Make sure the kids understand, and make sure it is as easy as it can be on them.

Oh, I smell what you were cookin.

Mobile Spy looks like your best bet. Stick it to this b**ch so she can't get her hands on any more of your hard earned money than she already is going to. Listen to your attorney.

http://www.cheatercheckers.com/image...s_com_logo.gif

http://www.cheaters.com/

I was under the impression these were not saved on servers at all, for these exact reasons and liability issues.

A good lawyer will tell you that you should get a seperation agreement from her, and hit her with it VERY soon after your confront her with the proof that you know she is cheating. This will cause her to usually sign the agreement, which will be VERY favorable to you, because of the guilt she feels from just being caught. The seperation agreement basically handles all of the money issues and who gets what, while still giving the appearance that you might want to make it work still. After she signs it though, its just a waiting game for the 6 months you have to wait until a divorce can be processed. At the divorce hearings, all you have to tell the judge is that both parties already signed a seperation agreement and the judge will sign off on the divorce. Simple, effective, and will get you the most bang for your buck.

Trust me with good old Uncle Sam's Patriot Act, everything type of information is saved somewhere.

Going through a divorce myself right now, spouse had an affair. Dont worry about catching her, if you think she is cheating just leave. We have a 4 year old and when i just accepted it, it got alot easier.

Good luck, need to chat shoot me a message

Did you catch that cheating whore yet?

updates kthx

god damn man, first post for the record books eh.

Lol really, thats an awesome first post...