Ok, I'm gonna chime in on a number of levels.

This thread/topic is a pretty touchy situation. We had a fellow community member (emphasis on community) calling out for a bit of assistance and support. And the majority of responses were supportive and offered potential solutions.

And sadly it usually takes one negative comment to sour the entire thread. Now fortunately NinjaMom stepped in quickly and slapped a warning on adlib311.

Now hopefully we can all let this issue with adlib311 quietly end and continue to give our support to Cipro (OP).

I hate to sound preachy, but this thread is now at a crossroads...it could turn into a "flaming thread" or everyone here can sack up and gloss over the negative comment.

I challenge this community (especially in this thread) to continue to support Cipro and to not pile on with the flaming. Surely we have more class than to flame in such a sensitive thread.

I don't know if this made a lot of sense...I just switched to Sanka this morning.

Cipro...we continue to send you some positive karma my man!!!!

late,
Coz

Just do what I did and get a girlfriend

cozboogie, you did make perfect sense. All any of ous should have to do is imagine ourselves in the OP's shoes (if we haven't been there already).

Todd/Indy

Umm... I just got out of a 3 year relationship and now shes dating anouther guy, 1 week later... :disgust:

Close enough? lol

Oh and crap happens to everyone, Cipro , my story isn't exactly like yours, but Im just trying to let you know your not the only one w/ bad luck, we all get something like this every once in a while, but the only real option is just to try and make it though this as smoothly as possible. Good luck...

As per the dashwire idea, i'm not sure they'd stay on the comp after they're deleted on the phone, but if necessary, PM me and I'll help ya get a dashwire accnt quicker.

As for the whole cheating idea-Only thing I can say is before confrontations, make sure you set yourself up and have things figured out, though the courts are more sympathetic to men compared to before, your attny wife will have lots of attny friends too, and you gotta cover your bases-she's obviously heartless.

thanks for all the kind words....

Just so you guys know, I installed mobile-spy and it worked like a champ....I was worried about a dialog box popping up that would give it away, but the developer was pretty savvy to name all the files smartphone.xxx so it seems like a windows error if one should occour....

Needless to say the software was able to give me the info I knew I would fine but hoped I would not. This info will probably help me not have to sell my business in order to divide assets, as the court will rip her a new one (according to my fire breathing attorney). I may even get sole custody of the kids.

We can close the thread, I sincerely appreciate the kind words.

To those of you who told me to man up or get over it, all I can say, is that I hope you never go through this.

Now if the court would just staple her vagina shut, that would be real justice.

Ha Ha thats hilarious

Ouch, dude. That is one harsh visual, but I can totally understand you feeling that way. Best of luck with the kids.

dont be such freaking girls. Sh*t. If somebody cheated on you its becouse you are not doing something right. Yes it has happend to me but i didnt sit around like a b*tch and cry. I took my sh*t and left . I moved on to the next one. I suggest that you also try the same thing.God. On top of that people are tattle telling. Man up and quit acting like b*tchs. I belive i do have fredom of speach and opinion.

Women... who needs them.


(No I am not implying ANYTHING about myself... or am i? LOL)

Me... its an addiction... :headbang:

looks like you're looking for more trouble.....do us a favor & disappear.

Well,

1) you don't have children so moving on is easy for you.
2) you don't have any sympathy for someone in need.
3) basicially, you have shown everyone that you're an idiot. I agree with OMJ, just basically leave the website and go on your marry way.

Cipro (sp?) Good luck again and hope the best comes out of this. At times, it takes more guts to walk away but again, it is so much fun to give it to them in the arse. :D

I hope this is a lame attempt at humor. If not, you are a pathetic, insipid person. Free speech? Sure you have the right to come on here and show everyone what a jerk you are, but I'm sure most of us would rather you just vanish. I would.

Todd/Indy

I also will click and report your post as a A** hole post. Hey Mods time to close this thread yet?

Adlib, you are mistaken. You have no freedom of speech on this board. The great ole US of A allows you to make an idiot of yourself anytime you want, but fortunately for all of us on this board, PPCgeeks has the right to eliminate your posts, edit your posts, or ban you at will. On PPCgeeks, or almost any forum for that matter, there are rules of conduct that one must follow if they intend to remain a member of that forum. You have proven that you are not capable of behaving in a manner that is suitable for this fine community and I for one will be requesting that you be banned from this forum so you cannot further make an idiot of yourself.

i am going to temporarily lock this post until its cleaned up and either removed or re-opened.