Ugh...need program to catch cheating spouse.. - Page 6

Stevenewjersey · #51 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 11:04 AM

I went out of town for a weekend. I had my work phone and left my Mogul at home. My GF asked if she could barrow it for a few days because she was interested in getting one herself. I told her sure. When I got back I noticed alot of dust on the keyboard. This meant high use to me as I always clean the phone once a week. Needless to say I called Sprint. It took me 2 hours but they finaly got me to the right department. After tripple checking my info the guy emailed me on the spot a full record of my phone service over the last year including all text messages, phone calls, to the point that I could tell what network I was connected to at the time. This GF was still pretty new so I did not have full trust in her yet. She turned out to be clean. The only text messages she sent was to her best friend about total BS.

I was very VERY pleased with Sprint's ability to help me on this and almost instantly. No waiting for the postal service but right into my email service.

I told them I let my son use the phone btw and I wanted to make sure he wasnt breaking the law. The rep did not care he was giving it to me the second I asked for it either way. Turn sout we have a right to summon these records by federal law.

jeffreynew23 · #52 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 12:51 PM

Have a talk with her. You should know the truth after that. You don't need to check her texts

Cipro · #53 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by jeffreynew23

Have a talk with her. You should know the truth after that. You don't need to check her texts

She is an attorney....she can lie pretty good

alvarez1980 · #54 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Cipro

She is an attorney....she can lie pretty good

well I'm new to posting guys but here it goses well I wanted to see if the second phone could pick up the text messages .. IT turns out that all it will pick up is the new voicemails icons not the messages itself hope this helps

da.bell · #55 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 01:10 PM

Sorry to hear about this but IMO, it might be better to just move on with both of your lives. I have been divorced for 3 years now with two cildren that were very young. I am a better person now that I have moved on with my life.

p.s. I also totally HATE attorney's also!!!!

Automaton · #56 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 04:19 PM

Wow. So many guys here who got cheated on. The times really are changing it seems. Hopefully you are all going out and getting more @ss than a toilet seat now.

Joeriginal · #57 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 04:29 PM

You dont want that toliet seat ass, you wanna stick with the bar stool ass.....

**shaun0207** · #58 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 06:32 PM

Went through the same thing with my Ex-fiance' . She didnt know $h!t about phones. This idiot was using an old Samsung V1000, that was actually my phone that i gave her on my account when she couldnt afford to pay her own cell phone bill. She was texting and calling him all the time. She didnt know when she was sending him pictures the the Sprint Picture mail website tracks it. So I would log into here picturemail account (that I set up) and look at all the pictures she was sending him. I know the regular Sprint site use to keep track of text messages as well, before they went to SMS. you use to have to log onto the internet to send text messages (remember that!).

There was nothing she could say. She tried to tell me it was her daughter she was sending text messages to (who was downstairs) to bring her a wash cloth and towel. Yeah Right!

I tried to be man about it and forgive her the first time she slept with the guy. I ran around and cheated on her from the day we had go together. So her cheating once really didn't matter. I had to listen to what a friend of mine said about his with cheating on him:

"she can give away half as much P**** and I gave away D***, that B**** is good. "

So i let it go the 1st time, but when she did it again.... i took the ring, the phone, the car etc... back. And let her go.

She is married to the guy know and they fight more than ever. I know she has cheated on him with at least 2 dudes since she got married in May of 2007. They have been together officially since mar. 2006

Its gets better. I started dating my wife a week after I dumped my Ex and I got married in Oct of 2007 and we are planning a big wedding t invite our families too in Oct of 2008.

Cut your losses and roll out. You will be happier

vincemash · #59 (**permalink**) 01-17-2008, 03:43 PM

If you suspect she's cheating and she has done it before, she probably is....and unfortunately IMHO counseling does not work (ON SOAPBOX..mainly because counselors are usually have similar problems themselves and always extend their problems onto yours and how you should handle it..OFF SOAPBOX)

My advice is to just file for divorce, and odds are you live in a no-fault divorce state, hopefully she will agree on a 50/50 deal with the kids....and split everything else down the middle....hell she will probably owe YOU alimony if she's a lawyer.

Just be done with it and move forward, find peace within yourself, you and your kids will be better off in the long run.....been there myself

Joeriginal · #60 (**permalink**) 01-18-2008, 12:03 AM

Jeez, is there no fidelity left in this world, have the media moguls twisted our morals, and values to the point that we all see just one bland shade of gray. Everyone getting cheated on, with the divorce rate climbing, are human beings ganna resort to just animals that change partners as they please, and just continue to pass disease and hurt to each and everyone. There is no respect left for the institution of marriage, its a joke that you can drive up, get married, and drive off. And its just a shame that divorce lawyers are wealthier than ever.