Ugh...need program to catch cheating spouse.. - Page 4

Automaton · #31 (**permalink**) 01-11-2008, 06:53 PM

Mobile Spy looks like your best bet. Stick it to this b**ch so she can't get her hands on any more of your hard earned money than she already is going to. Listen to your attorney.

neilson · #32 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by stroths

Sorry to hear that. You might be better off hiring a PI to follow her. If she is cheating, she has to meet him physically some time. Of course that will not be cheap.

http://www.cheaters.com/

xefe · #33 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by twbrooks

Hey guy's, sorry to hear what's going on. I just spoke to a rep at aprint whom advised me you can contact Corporate Security with Sprint at#800-877-7330 M-F 7-5. You would have to advise them the reason for what you need a print out of the text info that is going out, I would just say something like I'm going through a divorice and need this for something on the level of cheating like that. Let us know if this is good.

I was under the impression these were not saved on servers at all, for these exact reasons and liability issues.

muyoso · #34 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 01:02 PM

A good lawyer will tell you that you should get a seperation agreement from her, and hit her with it VERY soon after your confront her with the proof that you know she is cheating. This will cause her to usually sign the agreement, which will be VERY favorable to you, because of the guilt she feels from just being caught. The seperation agreement basically handles all of the money issues and who gets what, while still giving the appearance that you might want to make it work still. After she signs it though, its just a waiting game for the 6 months you have to wait until a divorce can be processed. At the divorce hearings, all you have to tell the judge is that both parties already signed a seperation agreement and the judge will sign off on the divorce. Simple, effective, and will get you the most bang for your buck.

Joeriginal · #35 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 02:04 PM

Trust me with good old Uncle Sam's Patriot Act, everything type of information is saved somewhere.

ls6tt · #36 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 02:43 PM

Going through a divorce myself right now, spouse had an affair. Dont worry about catching her, if you think she is cheating just leave. We have a 4 year old and when i just accepted it, it got alot easier.

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