Ugh...need program to catch cheating spouse.. - Page 2

germie · #1 (**permalink**) 02-10-2008, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by twbrooks

Hey guy's, sorry to hear what's going on. I just spoke to a rep at aprint whom advised me you can contact Corporate Security with Sprint at#800-877-7330 M-F 7-5. You would have to advise them the reason for what you need a print out of the text info that is going out, I would just say something like I'm going through a divorice and need this for something on the level of cheating like that. Let us know if this is good.

I am going through this as well, there has to be a search warrant signed by a judge for you to obtain any information from the account as it protects the other "parties" involvoed. I already contacted Corporate Security and they advised of this and why.....hope this helps. I caught mine with a keylogger/datalogger/screenshot capture utility.

**Perasite** · #2 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 12:32 PM

Try this:
http://www.zedsoft.net/
Does automatic backups of text messages when sent/received. Haven't tried it, but it sounds like it will do what u want.

hoch2104 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 11:51 AM

Best way to do this... I'm kinda like onto stuff like this

If you 2 are on the same account.(which if you are married I assume you are) or if not I'm sure you know her last 4 SS#. Get a used Sprint cell phone, call sprint have sprint swap that phone for your wifes. Sprint will have you enter all the info (MSL code, etc.)
A few minutes later call back and put your wifes phone back on her account. Even though you cant call or respond to any text messages, Sprint will continue to send incoming text messages to BOTH phones!!!! I know this becasue I have had many cell phones and everytime I change to a new one, I continue to receive text messages on both phones for a few days. Good Luck!! email me with any questions.

**OMJ** · #4 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by hoch2104

Best way to do this... I'm kinda like onto stuff like this

If you 2 are on the same account.(which if you are married I assume you are) or if not I'm sure you know her last 4 SS#. Get a used Sprint cell phone, call sprint have sprint swap that phone for your wifes. Sprint will have you enter all the info (MSL code, etc.)
A few minutes later call back and put your wifes phone back on her account. Even though you cant call or respond to any text messages, Sprint will continue to send incoming text messages to BOTH phones!!!! I know this becasue I have had many cell phones and everytime I change to a new one, I continue to receive text messages on both phones for a few days. Good Luck!! email me with any questions.

good suggestion.....Sprint always tells you to leave the old phone off for at least 24hrs, but I've turned the old phone back on even after 24hrs, and get a voicemail notification on both old & new phones.

If you're on Sprints new billing system, you can swap handsets yourself when you log into your account online.

Stevenewjersey · #5 (**permalink**) 01-15-2008, 11:04 AM

I went out of town for a weekend. I had my work phone and left my Mogul at home. My GF asked if she could barrow it for a few days because she was interested in getting one herself. I told her sure. When I got back I noticed alot of dust on the keyboard. This meant high use to me as I always clean the phone once a week. Needless to say I called Sprint. It took me 2 hours but they finaly got me to the right department. After tripple checking my info the guy emailed me on the spot a full record of my phone service over the last year including all text messages, phone calls, to the point that I could tell what network I was connected to at the time. This GF was still pretty new so I did not have full trust in her yet. She turned out to be clean. The only text messages she sent was to her best friend about total BS.

I was very VERY pleased with Sprint's ability to help me on this and almost instantly. No waiting for the postal service but right into my email service.

I told them I let my son use the phone btw and I wanted to make sure he wasnt breaking the law. The rep did not care he was giving it to me the second I asked for it either way. Turn sout we have a right to summon these records by federal law.

**stroths** · #6 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 02:00 PM

Sorry to hear that. You might be better off hiring a PI to follow her. If she is cheating, she has to meet him physically some time. Of course that will not be cheap.

neilson · #7 (**permalink**) 01-12-2008, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by stroths

Sorry to hear that. You might be better off hiring a PI to follow her. If she is cheating, she has to meet him physically some time. Of course that will not be cheap.

http://www.cheaters.com/

twbrooks · #8 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 05:21 PM

You can try in see if you can get the # she is texting to. If you can get that try texting him from your phone as if you were her to get a response. Or you can just go hard with it, but if this happened before and if it's the same person get the #, call or text and see what's up. If you can get a copy of the bill check out the #'s she call, call them to see who answers then you can text each one, would be alot , but hey.

Automaton · #9 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 06:43 PM

Your old lady is obviously gettin' the goods from somewhere else if you know what I mean. If I were you, I would be looking for an attorney, not a text msg logger.

**CozBoogie** · #10 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 06:52 PM

Sadly I agree with Automaton...it's academic at this point who she's texting and what she's saying. Slowly get your sh#t together (both personally and financially) without letting on that you suspect her. That way you'll be much more prepared than her. Make a plan and stick to it.

late,
Coz