hey guys...I really need some help

[crpkoki]

I had a touch pro that I gave my wife in feb. when I joined the navy that I put mighty mikes custo rom on. I then bought a new touch pro for myself. I took y x wifes 2 gig micro card out of hers and put it in mine and was browsing the files for things I had on there i wanted and I accidentally clicked on the backup file i made before I erased the phone for her in feb. so it updated my rom and updated my phone(the new one) and reset...up comes the password screen...just a simple numericle pin...but i can't remember it. now every time i try this little timer doubles the the time i have to wait to enter a pin again...im at 2 hours and 34 min...net time will be 4 hours....and the phone will not do a hard reset! anybody have any suggestions? I can get to the tri color screen, but when i try to flash A new rom i get a cannot communicate error in the ruu....somebody help?