windows mobile device center help

[jourabchid]

So its all up and running on vista, sync fine, but for the life of me i cannot find the option that lets you make contact changes on your phone and have them be reflected on the computer, i have to change them in outlook in order for things to save...so if im away from the computer and i add a new contact, go back to sync when i get home it deletes my contacts...

i know you can change this setting with xp/activesync...but what about vista and WMDC?