Worried parent needs help???? Please

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Wondering if anyone can help me out; I need a program, or app which I can check incoming, outgoing SMS, Phone calls, and picture mail including GPS capabilities. I will be monitoring my 13 year old daughter.

Before I get a whole bunch of members flaming about giving her space, letting her be, what about her privacy, let me give you some background.

I discovered my 13 year old daughter was going to run away with a guy she met on the internet and she had fallen in love. They were going to go to Mexico and live happily ever after. Turns out the guy was a registered sex offender and was on parolee. He wasn't 16 like he told her, he was 34. He had completed nine years on a 15 year sentence, for kidnapping and raping an 11 year old boy. Yes he is back in prison and there are court orders for him to stay away, no contact. He got violated and I don't know how much time he will end up. We still have hearing to go to.

As for giving her space and privacy, I don't believe in it. A parent’s main job is to protect and guide their children, not to be their best friend.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I have been all over the internet looking for help and all I hear from the Libs are how appalled they are at my invasion of her rights. I could care a less about her rights right now. So please if this offends you, just move on to the next thread.

If you know of anything which can help me please give me the information. She has a HTC Hero and I am using the Evo 4G.

For those who understand and can help, thank you