Sorry to hear that. You might be better off hiring a PI to follow her. If she is cheating, she has to meet him physically some time. Of course that will not be cheap.

You can try in see if you can get the # she is texting to. If you can get that try texting him from your phone as if you were her to get a response. Or you can just go hard with it, but if this happened before and if it's the same person get the #, call or text and see what's up. If you can get a copy of the bill check out the #'s she call, call them to see who answers then you can text each one, would be alot , but hey.

Your old lady is obviously gettin' the goods from somewhere else if you know what I mean. If I were you, I would be looking for an attorney, not a text msg logger.

Sadly I agree with Automaton...it's academic at this point who she's texting and what she's saying. Slowly get your sh#t together (both personally and financially) without letting on that you suspect her. That way you'll be much more prepared than her. Make a plan and stick to it.

late,
Coz

part of the plan is that I need facts....my state still awards the cheating spouse less money....the attorney asked me to try and get copies of the txt msgs....he knows im sorta a geek and figured I could get them....

Head over to XDA and post your question there.

www.xda-developers.com

late,
Coz

If dashwire was out now, he'd be set...

I am not suggesting this....

But I bet if aperson had a phone cloned with a matching esn it would at least "receive" all of the incoming text messages....

I also know that from Crickets website I can text a message to anyone and put in the phone number I want displayed on the receivers end.

I have done this before as a joke. Text someone but put in a phone number of someone else I wanted to mess with.

omething like my husband is watching, dont text back at this number. This is my new number.... Or meet me at 4:00 todday at (ANY ADDRESS YOU CHOOSE TO BE WAITING)

i agree with yznheimer.
or get the number and say youve had top change the number. and you converse with the F***er. but get your stuff sorted and get out. take your kids with you.

are there no delete optyions on her phone which will put them in to the delete d items folder like a PPC, rastheer than deleting them permanently.

or get her a new phone that can do this and you can check them.
my ex was not very tech minded so sometimes the texts were not deleted properly.

or check her sent items box.

sorry to hear your plight
m.

oh yeah. you know it will just piss you off more to read the messages anyway.