ROM upgrade question

[porkchop]

My husband was going to do it for me but claims to never have time. He had time to do his somehow so we won't even go there.

He keeps telling me it's so easy. Maybe it is, but I need someone to show me or tell me how at least. Is there a place where there are step by step instructions? I found some but they were for an HTC phone and seemed pretty specific for that phone. He had me delete everything from my phone in preparation and it is so annoying to have no contacts, no games, no SPB, etc for weeks. Arghhhh
Thanks,
Kimberly