New Omnia user

[Brrad]

Hey there, I'm new to the Omnia and new to this site. Im really not too computer savvy and im already having problems with the device. I tried to look through some threads to see what I could find. but now all im thinking is "wow what did i get myself into!" i really need your help guys, and i would eppreciate it if you were patient with me!!!

I will just stick with one problem to start out with.

I really dont get the file transfering when i plug my Omnia into my PC.
So i plug the omnia into the usb port on my pc. and when i bring up "my computer" it recognises it. But thats all. i click on the Omnia and it opens but nothing is in that folder? i would really like to know how to put songs on my omnia and also transfer photos off of it.

what is the activesync program? i tried to install all of the software from the cd that came with the phone. but i really dont know that im doing here...

as you can tell i need help!