Greyed Tethering

[karate134]

I checked the forums, and I used the search function! Yay.
Ok, but that didn't help.

When I get into the internet sharing prog, the "connect" is greyed out.

I went through steps manually and used the cab for the internet fix. I also tried starting the internet connection on my phone by starting IE before connecting the USB.

I'm on mighty 4.16

Thoughts?