been away for a while, ROM advice?

[nyCecilia]

Hi all,

I've been away for a while, thought I was going to move to android but then changed my mind, I just like my TP2 too much lol. Anyway, last time I was here nrfitchett and brooklyncat (thanks again, guys!) helped me out with a couple of ROMs and I've been running one of them for a really long time without even having to reinstall!!! but that was quite some time ago, and now that time has passed...time to reinstall and the computer that had those ROMs is gone (or at least I can't find the stuff).

Can someone help me out and suggest a ROM?

I'm hoping for whatever is the most trouble-free as possible. Don't care at all about eyecandy or games or anything (HATE the moving weather thing). Lightweight/power saving is priority. I don't currently use Sense at all, typically I use the default menu system (not the windows one that revolved like zune but the one where you uncheck Windows Default and HTC Sense and then check the items you want so your upcoming calendar items show on the main screen, not sure what it's called). These are the things that I use most often:
PocketPlayer
PocketShield
Calendar
Contacts
Phone
SMS
Waze
Opera Mini
pnotepad
To do lists
MS MyPhone
Evernote
File Explorer
Camera/Albums
youtube (occasionally)
Instant Messaging (occasionally)

In the past I didn't use tethering but I'd like to be able to on occasion, but I'm not sure what I have to do to set it up.

Any advice is appreciated.

Cecilia