gmail imap question... what setting do i have to put it on

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When you delete from a handheld, it always goes to All Mail in gmail, not the trash... but there is somewhere in advanced settings to prevent this from happening and leave the original message on the server inbox... don't have hardware in front of me so can't provide more direct guidance... I personally prefer to have the two way sync going so my inbox doesn't get overwieldy, but it's individual user preference...