HELP! Titan Takes forever to boot/wont boot completely

[Mintdub]

I have a DCD rom on my titan.. the rom to me dosent seem very stable... if the phone locks up or does wacky stuff. i either soft reset it or take the battery outr for awhile... well when the phone actually boots... it usually dosent boot all the way.. it will try to launch the touch flo stuff or it will come up with cannot lauch (all the services) there are little error boxes with an OK button in the corner...

Is this caused by the rom trying to load to many things at boot?? how is this fixed if thats the case?

What are the steps i can take to make my phone more stable?

EDIT: another thing it does is when it goes to sleep or whatever... it wont come back on. if i hit the power button alot.. the lights are blinking but nothing happens(stays black) I didnt load to to much software on it.