AIM/Chat software - Delay in answering phone

[andsoitgoes]

So here I sit - trying to iron down WHY my phone is taking 6 - 10 seconds to pick up a call when in sleep mode.

I went through, removing each and every plugin on my phone. I slowly started everything back up, and the SECOND I loaded Palringo or Fring, that is when this problem happens.

It didn't happen in Mundu IM, but that wouldn't restart automatically.

Is there any solution? I'm really frustrated by this - I need my chat client open to talk to people, but I also need to not miss phone calls because my P4000 gets all confused like when a call comes in.

Anyone have this experience, any suggestions? Please help!

Nick