A little help please

[jrocc1986]

i feel pretty stupid askin sum of these question but im brand new to the pocket pc thing. i got the mogul about a month and a half ago and was dissappointed that i couldnt watch youtube vids but with a lil search i found this site and the video bundle. now im lookin at all this stuff and im pretty much confused. talkin about new roms and kitchens and stuff, i have no idea about any of that stuff. i luv my phone and want to use it to its full potential but im not sure how. wat r sum programs that yall recommend? i seen sum gps videos on utube, do u hav to pay for that type of stuff? and in yall opinions is this 1 of the best phones out. my boi thinks his tilt phone is great and is always tryin to compare them. also is there a way to listen to my music thru a bluetooth headset?