setting up OWA mail

[spiffyjiff]

ok i'm sorry, but i have been all over the place and still cant figure out how to do this!

my work IT dept only allows remote email via OWA. i can access using opera no problem but i'd like it to sync/push/down-upload/whateveritscalled into my outlook on the phone seamlessly. HOW DO I DO IT?!?!? i have tried and TRIED to set this up to no avail thru "new account" in the messaging and thru activesync. it cant be that hard since there are only 3 simple steps when i access it via opera!!!

i go to website:
www.sodexhomail.com (but when it loads, the full address is https://www.sodexhomail.com/owa/&reason=0)

and i login with only 2 pieces of info:
domain\username: xx-xxxxxxx\myname
password: xxxxxxxx

please please PLEASE someone tell me how to set this up STEP BY STEP so i dont have to keep going thru opera!!!

thanks!