Memory Problems still...?

[nFiniti]

Ok, I'm a little stumped on what the hell is going on with my memory problems. I love the new rom by helmi so far... but lets see... before I do my settings changes my memory is sky rocketing and then after I start playing music and everything is setup the way I want, I barely have any memory left over. I'm going to show everything I do here starting from a fresh Hard Reset:

Once it starts up I reset the phone before it gets to install the ExtROM cabs because I dont need some of the files that are in my custom ExtROM.

Once reset happens here is my memory before Sync to upload contacts:
Storage:
In use: 2.33mb
Free: 41.17mb

Program:
In Use: 17.56mb
Free: 31.62mb

Now I'm synchronizing Contacts ONLY!
Storage:
In use: 2.63mb
Free: 40.87mb

Program:
In Use: 19.07mb
Free: 30.12mb

Now I just changed a few settings like backlight and power settings and my memory drops some more... Not much on this, but its still weird.

Now that I have all my settings fitted into the phone. I go into WMP and update my library to all my music on my SD Card.

Now I'm watching my program memory drop from 30mb! Right now at this moment its stuck around 11.47mb of program memory. But most of the time I catch it around 8mb... a few days ago it was down to 5mb and causing errors... I'll update this in the next few minutes.