Can't Connect To Computer!!

[elementman322]

Okay,

So I bought my apache off ebay a while ago....whatever. I put helmi's kitchen on it..it's sweet. However, when I try to connect it to my computer it does not sync properly.
I have both xp and Vista and have tried both. In vista it connect to the wireless manager or whatever, but fails to sync completely leaving me no way to get my contacts and other information. In xp I downloaded active sync and it really doesn't work at all...Can someone help me? I feel like an amatuer here and I"m really not lol...

Thanks
elementman