Earbuds: Finding a control or a good pair.

[AcousticBruce]

I have found that there is lots of good ear buds out there. But none have the controls that wp7 earbuds came with. The earbuds with the phone are just fail. Huge in ear and bad quality sound.

2 questions:

1) Is there any control device I can buy that goes in between any set of head phones. (I DO NOT want a volume slider... i want buttons), that communicate with the phone.

2) any earbuds that have the control on them as well as being VERY high quality? Coated or cloth covered wires, comfort in ear design, noise cancelling, above par sound? Things like that.