Unlocked Phone won't flash??

[axel36]

I have unlocked and flashed my phone numerous times. My wifes phone was unlocked 3 months ago, but never updated.

I tried to install a new program on hers today, and got all sorts of error writing file messages. So I figured it was due to sprints version of the ROM (yes, it is unlocked). Tried numerous times to load new ROMs, all failed w/ activesync on 2 computers. It would connect and everything looked normal, but it would hang at 0% and the give an error in the update utility. I tried entering into bootloader mode to install, it wouldn't even connect. So I even tried to flash from internal storage, and that failed - just stuck on the "loading ..." screen 15 minutes. I even tried running the diamond unlocker to no avail.

I did 2 hard resets in the process to see if it would help. The comps are running Vista and XP 64. Activesync can connect on both comps.

To make things better, PIM only reloaded 15 of the contacts from the address book, then that gets kicked out for some reason.

Any suggestions on what to do, or how to get the phone to flash? Anything would be appreciated.