[keland44]

there is an option you need to change on your phone rather then replacing items on your device you want the system to replace the items on your computer
if you go to activesync on your phone then go to menu/options/microsoft exchange or whichever one is your computer select that and then click settings
and keep hitting next till you get to the screen that says edit server settings right before you hit finish click on menu and click on advanced
where it says if there is a conflict change it to keep the item on my device
you shouldn't have to remove activesync and this should take the items on your phone and sync them with your pc
if not you might wanna check out google sync