[shaneo13]

The best thing to do, would be to start in the vogue upgrade sub-folder at the top of this page. Read the stickies. It's hard to give you a certain way of upgrading as there are so many different preferences and roms.
I personally am running the hacked verizon leaked rom. It would probably be a good rom to start with, its simple to install and gives you wm6.1, GPS, and Rev. A. Do a search on it. There is a long thread on it in the sub-folder I mentioned earlier. Other than that, there are many other great roms and programs you can find here.