Alright, well, I tried the free ones first of course, lol. I'm not sure what I didn't do right, but the octaviz one that I tried, although it had the Wisbar, didn't really give me enough tech support, I could never get the missed call/voicemail/email little red circles to update correctly.
I had the same issues with the iphonethemeforpocketpc.com software, but i was able to at least get a hold of someone to help me get it working on my phone.
So anyways, I'm glad I tried others before i bought this one so i knew what I did, and didn't want in a theme.
Thanks again guys,
Harold.