If I were you, I would just wait a few weeks for Verizon to release their own updated Rom (it will be a 3.x rom) I heard end of march beginning of april for release date. That will be the only version that is 'like verizon shipped it'. It remains to be seen if the 'working' part will be added though
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I think the closest you will get is the "Clean and Simple" install. I think the perfect ROM I had was when I used the most basic 3.3 (used the simple instructions to make my own basic rom with no kitchen stuff), never had problems with the phone until I tried 3.5, then I was back to the 2.2 days of DSODs. Now I am using Sar's 3.5 rom which I like, but also has little add ons, and removes a lot of stuff.