yes both winmo infact they are both TP2's with the same exact OS (used the same "rom" from htc to flash them both)
it also does it when I send to any OTHER phone (non winmo etc..) its the TP2 doing it. on receive its fine the TP2 is actually sending separate contacts for some reason
shake2send is discontinued and it does not solved the issue of how do I send contacts to a NON winmo phone
pimbackup solves my immediate problem.