I found a couple sites that explained how to do this so I dont take credit. this one I pulled from Cellphoneforums
Download this file to your phone (either open it up in browser or put it on sd card):
http://files.cellphoneforums.net/fil...haring_VGA.cab
Go to Start > Comm Manager - turn Wifi off if it is on
Run the .cab file
Go to Start > All Applications > CM Internet Sharing
Confirm settings (change the name or wep key if you want)
Click Start in the lower right
Follow the on screen instructions
was able to sync right up to my ipod. I havent tried my iPud but I bet it works just as well