ok, hmmm might have to wait til one of the gurus comes in and can tell exactly whats wrong, you could try the
Touch Pro 2 cleanup:
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=88640
but it does alot of fixes and tweaks probably resolve the issue your having, i recommend doing a soft reset after that, and im on energy rom phoenix 2 at the moment and loving it, another good rom to start out on is mightyrom, and i use microsoft myphone to backup contacts and stuff