[newgirl]

I have the Samsung Saga with windows and I believe someone has connected to it through either the remote desktop connection or via the wifi or maybe that spyfile thing I've been reading about.
I've only plugged it into the USB on my work computer and my home laptop but never "connected" it to either.
I know the desktop and my laptop HAVE been accessed remotely and a bunch of things installed- all were under the hidden files- things like amiyun printer, win rar, syscam (?), virtual ethernet ports and a bunch of other stuff.
I noticed that even though my wireless and bluetooth and GPS and everything I could disable or turn off on my phone I could still see someone access files (emails, sms etc-- emails that weren't sent from my phone- never used the emails on my phone) I watched them choose something in the search function and search for the files on my phone.

Then I found a bunch of contacts listed under a directory title that i found on my work computer (the one at work)- contacts for email accounts I haven't used in literally years.

Also, the only photos on my phone are the ones i've taken with the phone. When I saw this starting I removed my memory card but when i went back into the ph I could NOT delete any of the photos. Then about 3 days later I looked at the photos again and 4 of them had been blacked out. Funny they were the 4 photos of the people I believe are involved in doing this but ALL the rest of my pics are still there.

Also, have this CallLogListner.exe that is coming up on my processes list that Verizon has never heard of. I don't know what it is and I've never changed any of the settings etc in my phone. OH, and under the notes section in contacts - in the contact information of one of the people i am sure is involved is this note "Pathfinder JGD 6471"

I know from reading on that spyfile website that they can send you a text message to change features once they've downloaded a file onto your phone & you'd never know. I keep getting either "blank" or bizarre text messages from that same contact.

I have an idea of the people doing this and want to do something to prosecute them (if anyone has any suggestions regarding that I'd gladly take them). Unfortunately, I work with all of them and one of them is the president of my company. He is not only a total computer geek (no disrespect intended) but one of his family members is a private investigator.
Obviously, I need a new job but in the meantime I need to be able to use my phone (and hopefully) computer at home.
I want them out of my phone. I took it to Verizon and they said to do a hard reset which means I'd lose all my information sms, call logs, files etc.

I don't want to erase any evidence to give to the police- since everyone i know keeps telling me no one would do this etc- but I want them to get out of my phone out of my business.
Is there any way to tell what they used to hack into my phone? How do I get rid of them without doing a hard reset? How can I not lose any of the information if that's the only thing I can do....

I will gladly accept any suggestions at all. I am typing this from my parents house (home for the holidays) and will not have access to a computer tomorrow unless I go to my apt complex business center. I can't use my computer at work- obviously- and am afraid to use my home laptop 'cause i don't want them to get any other information from me.

...help...