Bluetooth and Sync?

[Oditius]

I must be doing something wrong? To sync with the BT I have to:

1) Turn BT on
2) Go to Settings BT
3) Highlight the BT device I want to connect to
4) Hit cancel, because when I touch it, the config shows up
5) Hit connect.

Now this is ridiculous, it is just easier to plug the in the TP and sync that way. It would be nice if I could get them to connect automatically once I turn on the BT. (There is an icon in my SSK2.3 to do that) Any idea's on how to make this happen. I did a search and all I found was a suggestion to leave the BT on all the time. Not helpful, I don't have an unlimited source of battery power.