help with kitchens

[djdaredevil]

ok ive searched and searched only to come up blank i cant seem to find a rom that has everything that i want and i cant seem to find the kitchens
this will be the first time that i build my own rom so i would like a simple kitchen as i just want to remove some of the bloatware and find the memory leaks.
basically i want to build a rom that retains the settings of a stock rom packaged different is fine, gets rid of bloatware, and has the programs i use all ready built in also to get the memory usage down to around the low 50% with sense 2.5
please help in any way possible but please remember i have never used a kitchen before

p.s. if this is in the wrong place or something is wrong with it please let me know but be kind about it i will fix any problems