Help please

[Snowrblind]

"Also if where do like notifications the little spot next to the notifications that shows a little piece of the background turns to the real color of the background."
Calm down and breath a little friend.
You can disable or modify your notifactions settings under Start>Settings>Sounds and Notifactions>Notifications Tab. You could turn off the ones that are bothering you.

Your saying, instead of the little pop up ballon you get something else that is the color of the background?
What do you mean by the "real color of the background"? Sounds like you have a skin that might be messing things up.
Are you running the stock rom?