Bluetooth passkey (PIN)

[lemeiux1]

ok so I just bought a bluetooth adapter from best buy for my laptop, now it finds my phone fine but when I click connect a window pops up saying "Bluetooth Passkey (PIN):" and I dont know what to enter???

if I enter random numbers (like 0000) my phone asks if if it wants to add my computer to the device list and I click yes and then it pops up with "passcode" then I enter the same thing and it says access denied on the computer end

this is driving me crazy!