ringer/phone/app volume

[slow4g63]

It seems as though there is 3 different volume settings (ringer, phone, & media/app volume)
When I lower the system/ringer volume by hitting the volume button while on the home screen I want that to control ALL of the volume settings.

If I have the volume to the lowest and go to the phone and hit a number it is SUPER loud! And when I open a program that has sound it is really high too.

Is there a way to tweak this so that there is only 1 volume control??