You don't have to bust his balls...it is common knowledge--it is just that some newer people may not have known about it. While we're discussing this menu and settings, I'll add one piece of information. There is a setting in that menu called "Slot Cycle Index." This controls how often your phone "wakes up" to check for incoming connections. Each "cycle" is 1.28 seconds, so if you have this set to 0 your phone's slot will cycle every 1.28 seconds. If you set the cycle to 1, your phone will sleep for 2.56 seconds at a time, and 3 is 5.12 seconds. This is typically set by default to 2. If you experience frequent delays in incoming connections, you may want to drop this to 1. Just bear in mind the less sleep your phone gets the crankier it gets and as a result you'll have to charge it more often.
I personally set mine to 1.