Yup. My ActiveSync settings were correct.
I finally fixed the OL2003 syncing (and a few other) problems - I went back to the AKU 3.5 Rev 1.0.4 Kitchen. WM6 is still too buggy, with little or no significant improvements worth the upgrade for now. I'll wait a few months until the bugs get ironed out by all the eager beta testers on this site.
Cheers!
¿GotJazz?