[sasjapuppy]

Sync Outlook with Google per instructions above. That's what my wife and I do and it works great. Another plus by doing it this way, you can have multiple devices set up to sync with the same Google Calendar (We happen to have two HTC Touch Pros) and they both sync with Google Calendar. We then have our laptops synch with Google too. This gets all four devices synced with each other. ( May be a good option for your partner and you too).