Woot Woot thanks to hannip over at xda for pointing out that smstrigger was not included in the first .cab so I went back and added it and now there is no more delay in the sending of sms messages! So everyone redownload the .cab in the first post which I have updated to fix the problem.
Major Edit:
when I tested it I was in a threaded convo with myself since no one I know is up at this hour. And as soon as I sent it went through.....I just tried another while not in a threaded sms and it is like u said I rushed into it without FULLY testing it ....but the .exe was taken from the ROM I extracted it myself and the reg edits are there. Im trying guys....dont give up on me.