EDIT: ok so I got the text to pop up, its not the nicest version, but its fine i guess. How do you stop the music/ringer from coming on a new text message while I"m on the phone? I have it set to vibrate only in general.
ah that was perfect!! now the only thing I have a question for is when I'm on the phone talking, and I get a text, it makes a ringing thing, but the text does not pop up, I have to hit the "x", then go to the sms. How do I make it so it shows the text when it comes, and then I can do whatever while im talking?
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How do I get rid of the music thing and make the text pop up and viewable when it comes in?
thank you all for your help so far! I reallyyy appreciate it, and I am very very new to windows mobile!