[jbarns]

so it seems to be a vista problem, I'm at work now and running a vm with XP on it and downloaded active sync and it connected no problem.

-Edit-

I had put the Mighty rom on it and forgot to disable the advanced networking again in activesync. The computer see the phone under mobile devices as a PDA and I uninstalled the driver and rebooted, it just installed the same driver as before. I'll keep working on it when time arrives.