I owe this fix to Skeegcpp for encourging me to have fun and not give up. Here is the the fix with all of the components for the "Non-Geek".
I tried the Internet Share Fix from the link above and it did not work for me and I lost the Connect ability with INS. I took Skeegcapp's advice and did a hard reset on the phone and started over. No problem for me with the HR I just got the phone, major FYI for others.
Start buy down loading for the free Reg Editor
http://ceregeditor.mdsoft.pl/ Run the exe. Very easy to use for us Non-Geeks
Connect your phone via USB and click Connection and connect. This will show the Reg files on your phone.
Click Tools and Unlock Registry.
Now follow the Reg changes listed below:
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Comm\InternetSharing]
Extension=""
Delete the "isext.dll" entry
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Comm\InternetSharing\settings]
ForceCellConnection="Sprint PCS"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Comm\InternetSharing]
MaxCMCon=0
2. Start the Internet Sharing application.
3. Hit Connect In the Internet Sharing application.
4. Connect the Diamond to the Laptop/PC via USB
5. Done. No other applications needs to run on the PC/Laptop.
For those of you that used to have to start the phone modem and then start the PC modem this does it all with the connect on the phone, VERY COOL.
Thank you all for putting up with me for 12 hours, (yeah it took that long for me to find stuffthat I could figure out how to use). I hope that this very easy fix can help others to have a life after TP Modem set up.