You still don't have a reigstry editor installed.
You MUST do this to import the files. A couple would be Resco Explorer with the Registry editor addin (excellent) or the free
http://www.phm.lu/Products/PocketPC/RegEdit/.
As for iContact, Im not sure what the issue is? Is this not finger friendly? Or do you prefer white?
I am starting to think you are not cut out for a Windows Mobile phone. No offense, but it seems like a complete uphill battle for you. It doesn't seem worth it, if I was in your position.