Sorry to hear you're having trouble.
If you think touchflo is hard to navigate or that it is sluggish, you should disable it from the today screen... that will free resources (thus making it a little faster) and let you customize your phone more to your liking. If you do this, i recommend installing the trial of spb mobile shell to see if you might like that interface better. You can have MS menus on the today screen or assign the MS interface menus to a soft key (which i like to do).
http://www.spbsoftwarehouse.com/prod...obileshell/?en
There are customizers to help change the look and feel of that program as well. Make sure to add pocket digital clock for the main homescreen if you pick a UI that doesn't have a big clock on the front.
There are also many other UIs out there, so try them all and figure out which works best for you. A lot have tried all of them and would gladly make recommendations and help you out. VGA Home, like someone above mentioned, is also a great choice:
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread...light=vga+home
This phone has a beautiful display and is really powerful, so I wouldn't let touchflo3d get in the way of owning it. I actually have secondtoday installed, so I can keep touchflo and have a today screen for my other plugins like mobile shell. Also be sure to install s2u2 or some other screen locking program to keep from accidentally activating programs/making calls. Feel free to drop me a line if you have any other questions that you'd want my input on... later