i am in the same boat here... i feel tf3d is more eye candy then anything ... i hate not being able to customize it ... except for graphics....
i currently use phonealarm and numerious plugins .. i have left softkey set to manilla .. i like the weather in tf3d .. i might try spb mobile ... i was hoping people would post more screenshots....
to start the trend here is my screenshot
BATTI power meter
PhoneAlarm with launcher and facedialer activated
Google search plugin
mcountdown plugin
metrix plugin
GUYS, PLEASE SAHRE YOUR SCREENSHOTS IF U ARENT USING TF3D